I am SO EXCITED to announce the upcoming release of my latest book, The Loving Yourself Book For Women.
Get ready to boost your self-esteem, heal your inner child, and celebrate the incredible woman you are.
I wasted so many years in the self-hate swamp…
During a very difficult moment, I realized that I just had to cultivate self-love. Because I figured out it was the only way to climb out of this dark spiral of depression. And when I couldn’t find an easy, practical guide for loving myself, I decided to write one to help other women. Which means you.
I’m really thrilled to invite you to join the Self-Love Movement…
And for my guy friends (Hey there, Tom), I won’t forget about you. There’s always something to learn.
Stay tuned for more updates and sneak peeks leading up to the launch on May 28th. Let’s spread the self-love. Diana
The Sagi family on Kibbutz Meirav: Omer, Noam, Roni, Adi, Sharon, Amit, Michal and Elia (center). Photo by Eliel Saad
“Goodness is contagious.”
That’s what Adi Sagi, a foster parent of two daughters with Down Syndrome told me. I interviewed him before Down Syndrome Awareness Day which was March 21.
For the past 15 years, Sagi and his wife, Sharon, and their four biological children have raised awareness about Down syndrome, inspiring people to open their homes — and their hearts.
Adi recounted how, on the first night he and his family moved into their new house on Kibbutz Meirav in 2006, Sharon declared that their house was “too big” and they should take in foster children.
Sharon had worked with Down syndrome children as a National Service volunteer after high school. Even before they got married, she had mentioned to Adi that she would like to foster a Down syndrome child someday.
It didn’t take long for Adi to be persuaded, and soon they became a foster family to Michal, who was six at the time. With extensive therapies, education and support, Michal, now 23, is a soldier serving in the Equals in Uniform Project of AKIM Israel and has a boyfriend on the autism spectrum.
This Army unit is part of Israel’s military inclusion program, Special in Uniform, which allows young adults with intellectual and physical disabilities to serve their country. The unit inspired the U.S. Corps of Honor to start a similar program.
Here’s my article in Israel21C. A story of inspiration, spiritual, faith and hope.
He calls himself Father Philotheos, meaning “a friend of God” in Greek.
As the priest of the Greek Orthodox St. George Church in the Old City of Acre (Akko) in northern Israel, he serves 600 Greek Orthodox residents of the city as well as 30,000 people in 14 surrounding villages in the Western Galilee.
Among his congregants are also a growing number of immigrants from Russia. And when Father Philotheos isn’t leading prayer services, blessing newborn infants or giving last rites to the dying, he is busy restoring the outside of the church himself, adding decorative mosaics, shells and designs in the ancient stone walls.
Father Philotheos’s decorative shells in the church wall. Photo by Cathy Raff
St. George Church, probably the first Christian house of worship built in Akko, dates back to 1631. A physician from Marseilles who visited the church in 1666 declared it was the most beautiful church in the Middle East.
That is where Father Philotheos has served for the past five years. The story of his journey from the island of Crete, where he was born in 1962, to Israel is his own personal pilgrimage.
Heaven on earth
When he was a young boy, he said, a bishop came from Jerusalem to visit his family’s church in Crete. After the services, the bishop asked Philotheos if he wanted to come with him to Jerusalem.
“I immediately said yes,” Philotheos said, “but my father said, ‘How can you go alone?’ I was about 11 or 12. He wanted me to stay in Crete and marry, and carry on the family name. But I was stubborn and I left.”
Showing a book of Byzantine music. Photo by Cathy Raff.
This unusual couple makes unusual baked goods. Here’s my story from Israel21C.
Vered Baer and Morad Bishara in front of the bakery in Tarshiha, Galilee, Israel
Vered Baer started experimenting with gluten-free cooking and baking when her younger sister was diagnosed with celiac disease about 20 years ago.
After years of experimenting and studying, in November 2020 Baer opened Tupelo Bakery, the first wheat-free bakery and coffee shop in the Western Galilee.
The bakery, with its outdoor garden and tables, is in a picturesque alley on the Tarshiha side of Ma’alot-Tarshiha, the town near the Lebanese border where Baer lives with her husband Morad Bishara, a Christian Arab, and their two children, Lilana, 7, and Dylan, 4.
Baer said that Tupelo draws people from all over Israel, including Eilat at Israel’s southern tip. On Saturdays, market day in the town, there’s a line of customers waiting to eat the sometimes vegan, always vegetarian and wheat-free products.
An artistic wall at Tupelo Bakery’s outside garden.
Just like people who don’t have celiac can eat anywhere we want, I wanted a place where people with the disease could eat anything on the menu,” Baer said on a sunny morning in the middle of the week when the bakery wasn’t crowded.
Our faithful tent and my faithful husband, Jonny Kuritsky, setting up our campsite in the Galilee. CREDIT: Diana Bletter
Why? Why would anyone want to schlep mattresses, a grill, sleeping bags, tent and toothbrushes to camp in the wilds of Israel?
I ask myself this question each time my husband, Jonny, and I load up our Fiat 500 with all our camping equipment and stuff, making our tiny auto look like a circus car from which we remove all the above items. Oh, did I also mention bug spray, bathing suits, towels and a folding chair? And a light to see by in the darkness, provided you check the batteries. Which I forgot to do before we left our house in the Western Galilee and headed north.
I have been camping with Jonny and our blended family of six children for almost 30 years.
We’ve camped in Horshat Tal, in the north, often. One time, when soldiers in a nearby army base were told to go into shelters because there was the possibility of missile attacks, we had nowhere to go and just lay in our tents.
This is on the Snir Stream, a tributary of the Jordan River. PHOTO: Diana Bletter
We’ve camped near Mitzpeh Ramon, where “Star Man” Ira Machefsky set up telescopes for us in the middle of the Ramon Crater when there was very little moon and thousands of stars. As hard as I try, I still can’t fathom how the stars I looked at no longer exist, and how they traveled millions of lightyears just to reach here…
For more of this nostalgic, whimsical look at camping in Israel, click here for the full article in Israel21C.
I had the opportunity to talk to Leah Scheier, a novelist AND pediatrician AND mother of five children. Her fourth young-adult novel, The Last Words We Said, was published recently by Simon & Schuster. It’s a moving story about love and loss and growing up, centering around a teenager struggling to accept the fact that her boyfriend, Danny, is gone.
What’s most interesting about the book, is that it is set in a Modern Orthodox Jewish community in America. In fact, it’s the first YA novel to have Modern Orthodox characters.
There are books by Chaim Potok (who can forget The Chosen?) and best selling novels by Naomi Ragen, but there are no YA novels about the Modern Orthodox.
“Nothing?” I repeated. It seemed incredible.
“I’ve said this often and nobody’s ever corrected me,” Scheier said.
Modern Orthodox Jews make up about 30 percent of America’s Orthodox Jewish population. While they follow Jewish law (Scheier observes the Sabbath), they are not insular, managing to maintain Jewish traditions while participating in secular society.
“Often, the portrayal of Orthodox Jewish communities in the media is very negative,” Scheier said. “There’ a lot of emphasis on suppressing women – not just in the religious Jewish community but in other religious communities as well.”
Scheier wanted to portray the community objectively as well as lovingly. Readers have said they had never read anything about this population, and Modern Orthodox readers thank her, saying, “It’s the first time I’ve seen myself in a book!”
So this is a very big first.
The world she creates in The Last Words We Said is very believable. The three teenage friends depicted in the book speak like “real” teenagers, sometimes religious, other times rowdy.
“How did you do such realistic dialogue?” I asked.
“I asked my three daughters, all in their twenties, to read the book,” Scheier said. “They gave me authenticity.”
Scheier’s first novel, Secret Letters, is a historical mystery. Her novel, Rules of Rain, is a story about how a girl named Rain has taken care of her twin brother, who is autistic, their whole lives. Rain feels protective of Ethan and eventually, Scheier said, he “outgrows her.” Your Voice is All I Hear is about a high school girl who falls in love with a charismatic boy who is diagnosed with schizophrenia. As Scheier’s characters make their way through troubling times, readers find themselves rooting for them.
Scheier said that even if she could pay the bills writing full-time, she enjoys working as a pediatrician so she can meet people and get more material. She moved to Israel from Baltimore in 2008. She said she isn’t sure of which direction to take her fifth novel.
“Do you write an outline for your novels?”
“I don’t,” she replied. “For Secret Letters, my mystery novel, I had to write an outline so that I could keep track of the clues. Scheier said she thinks of her books in scenes and lets the characters talk in her head.
“Sometimes they say something that surprises me,” Scheier said. “That’s the best moment. The characters have a mind of their own.”
Scheier fell into young adult novels by accident. She wrote the first draft of Secret Letters in a year and half as fantasy fiction; there was a 16-year-old character as well as Sherlock Holmes who “showed up” in the novel.
After she finished it, her agent showed it to Disney/Hyperion and the editor wanted a complete rewrite. Scheier had to rewrite 95-percent of it, she said. The novel was then pitched as YA, which is “the fastest growing genre out there.”
“I’m perfectly happy writing YA novels,” Scheier said.
She added that she loves hearing from readers. She recalled when she wrote a letter to the middle-grade fantasy/adventure writer, Lloyd Alexander, never thinking she’d hear back from him, he responded in three days.
“It’s much easier with twitter,” she confessed. “The majority of authors love getting feedback from readers.”
In fact, when I interviewed her, I was in the middle of reading The Last Words We Said.
“What part are you up to?” she asked excitedly.
“They’re in the supermarket,” I replied. “Near the watermelons.”
“Oh,” she replied knowingly. “I don’t want to spoil it for you. Let me know when you finish it so we can chat.”
I thanked Scheier for her time and then said good-bye – sort of abruptly, I admit. I wanted to get back to reading her novel.
Scheier’s books can be found at your favorite local bookstore or on bookdepository.com.
In Europe, blacksmiths pass their craft from father to son, according to Walied Khoury, a blacksmith in the village of Fassuta in the Western Galilee.
But there are only about eight blacksmiths in all of Israel. Khoury is one of them and he learned the trade almost by chance.
Khoury is a friendly man dressed in a T-shirt that says BLACKSMITH on it, with a tattoo of an anvil on his forearm, a shaved head and fashionable goatee. He looks more like a motorcyclist than a blacksmith.
…I loved visiting about Khoury in his unique village and writing about him. I’m always excited by the diversity of people in Israel, and their creativity. The Start-Up Nation has many varieties, not just hi-tech. To read more about Khoury, please click here.
This is Khoury on his terrace; in the distance are the hills of Southern Lebanon, just across the border. PHOTO CREDIT: Diana Bletter
Dafna Prenner, center, with actor Michael Aloni and actress Irit Kaplan on the set of “The Beauty Queen of Jerusalem.” Photo by Nati Levi
I didn’t know this fact. You probably didn’t, either. Israel sells more scripted TV shows than any other country in the world except for the United Kingdom. I learned that when I visited Dafna Prenner.
Because she is tall and blondish, the writer of “The Beauty Queen of Jerusalem” nicknamed Prenner “The Viking” and presented her with an axe as a gag gift.
Prenner’s walls are also covered with classic movie memorabilia, photos of her family and friends, and a row of trophies for various TV shows her company has produced (“There are a lot more of them but these are the ones I keep here,” Prenner explained.)
Dafna Prenner next to some of Artza’s trophies. Photo by Diana Bletter
Along with her partner, Shai Eines, the 52-year-old has produced shows like “Miller’s Crossing,” “Stockholm” and the movie “Kicking Out Shoshana,” which was the Israeli movie debut for Gal “Wonder Woman” Gadot.
During my recent visit to her office in Tel Aviv, far from the city’s trendy shops, cafés and skyscrapers, Prenner was getting ready to shoot the second season of “The Beauty Queen of Jerusalem,” which debuted on Netflix in May to rave reviews.
Dafna Prenner in the costume room at Artza Productions with clothes for “The Beauty Queen of Jerusalem.” Photo by Diana Bletter
Gideon Shamir entrusts apprentice Uri Shani with his workshop, where metal and wooden organ pipes soar upwards like mountain peaks.
I was so enchanted during my visit at this workshop for organ building in the Galilee. The article appeared in Israel21C, which has fabulous news about Israel. I am sure you will enjoy reading this.
Uri Shani, left, and Gideon Shamir in front of organ pipes they will restore. Photo by Diana Bletter
I was so enchanted during my visit at this workshop for organ building in the Galilee. The article appeared in Israel21C, which has fabulous news about Israel. I am sure you will enjoy reading this.
For over 40 years, Gideon Shamir, 82, was the only organ builder in Israel. He searched for an apprentice to whom he could pass on his legacy and knowledge, but never found anyone with the patience to do the work.
Then, in June 2021, Shamir took theatre director and playwright Uri Shani, 55, under his wing.
“Uri passed the test with flying colors,” Shamir said. “He grasps what I’m trying to teach, he has good hands and musical ears.”
On February 14, the day I visited Ugavim, Shamir’s organ-building workshop and recital space in Yuvalim, in the Galilee hills, the two men signed a formal agreement. The business is now in the younger man’s hands.
Ugavim’s large, high-ceilinged workshop is filled with metal and wooden organ pipes that soar upwards Jewish organ music.
Shamir points out that the organ is first mentioned in the beginning of the Bible. Genesis 4:21 introduces Yuval, “the father of all who play the harp and the pipe — kinor v’ugav. How fitting that Ugavim (Pipes) is located in Yuvalim.
1. Who you are is life’s gift to you. What you make of yourself is your gift back to life.
2. To be more you, be less you. Do the opposite of what you're used to doing.
3. Your personal record is against yourself and nobody else.
4. Fear is Forgetting Everything’s All Right
5. Put gratitude in your attitude.
6. Live in day-tight compartments.
7. When agitated, pause and breathe deep.
8. Remember the problem in front of you is never as large as the power behind you.
9. Take care of your mind, heart, body and soul each day.
10. You only get to live once and if you do it right, that’s enough.
Diana Bletter is the author of several books, including The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish American Women (with photographs by Lori Grinker), shortlisted for a National Jewish Book Award. Her novel, A Remarkable Kindness, (HarperCollins) was published in 2015. She is the First Prize Winner of Moment Magazine's 2019 Fiction Contest. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Commentary, tabletmag, Glamour, The Forward, The North American Review, Times of Israel, and is a reporter for Israel21C, and many other publications. She is author of Big Up Yourself: It's About Time You Like Being You and The Mom Who Took off On Her Motorcycle, a memoir of her 10,000-mile motorcycle trip to Alaska and back to New York. She lives in a small beach village in Western Galilee, Israel, with her husband and family. She is a member of the local hevra kadisha, the burial circle, and a Muslim-Jewish-Christian-Druze women's group in the nearby town of Akko. And, she likes snowboarding and climbing trees.
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