Monthly Archives: July 2013

Tool For Tuesday: Be a Poet. Give Yourself Poetic License.

In school you learn how to write: subject, verb, ending, period. The girl went to school. But if you are a poet, you’re given license to mess things up a bit. To school went the girl. Give yourself permission to … Continue reading

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Every Thorn in the Desert is a Flower.

    “Every thorn in the desert is a flower,” goes an Israeli expression.   So how do we turn our attitudes around? Sometimes all we see is a thorn. Sometimes we really have to push ourselves into seeing a … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Don’t Force A Solution. The Answer Will Come To You.

Until we are ready to know something or see something, the mystery will stay a mystery. Unless we are absolutely ready to make a change, we’ll  stay stuck in the question, “Should I? Shouldn’t I?” So how do we get … Continue reading

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Tool for Tuesday: The Sandwich. Huh?

My friend, Joelle, was off to give her boyfriend “a piece of her mind.” Try the sandwich, I suggested. Huh? The sandwich approach is: two compliments with a suggestion in the middle. That seems to work best. Give a compliment, … Continue reading

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Michael Levin: You can’t fulfill your dream unless you dare to risk it all.

Today’s post is in memory of Michael Levin on the seventh anniversary of his death. Michael moved to Israel from Philadelphia in 2002 and joined the Paratroopers. In the summer of 2006, Michael was given leave to visit his family … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Worst Things First.

Gold medal Olympian swimmer John Naber said, “Do you know the difference between discipline and responsibility? “Responsibility means keeping the promises you make to others.  Discipline means keeping the promises you make to yourself.” So here (thank you to Melody … Continue reading

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July Fourth: Write Your Own Declaration of Independence.

It’s July Fourth and today we can declare our own independence. We can take a few minutes to write up our own declaration. Here’s mine. I am an independent, emotionally autonomous country. I declare that I have the right to … Continue reading

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Fourth of July: Write Your Own Declaration of Independence.

Today we can declare our own independence. We can take a few minutes to write up our own declaration. Here’s mine: I am an independent, emotionally autonomous country. I declare that I have the right to be happy despite the … Continue reading

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