- If you lose it, you lose it. Don’t lose control. If you do, then your kids will lose control and a bad situation only gets worse.
- Happy mother, happy children. Your children are your mirrors. If you’re judgmental, critical, and unhappy, your children will be, too.
- Respect children’s dignity. Never reprimand them in front of other people. Never hit them. Hurt children hurt children. Actually, hurt children go on to hurt everybody, including themselves.
- Never tell them that they are bad. There’s no such thing as a bad boy or a bad girl. They might do wrong but they are never inherently bad.
- Let them understand that they can feel sorry for what they did but not for who they are. You want them to have a healthy sense of self, not shame.
- Love your children without strings attached. They will one day leave you. They might never thank you for all you did for them. Taking care of them is the highest form of love there is. So do it without expectations. Remember the equation: no expectations = great happiness.
- Don’t focus on your spouse or partner’s relationship to your children. Flowers need sun and rain. If someone in you and your kids’ life is acting like rain, just be a stronger sun.
- Don’t react, respond. Let there be a moment’s breath between your first thoughts and your words.
- Remember to tell your kids that you love them each day.
- Remember to tell your very own self that you love you. Mother your children and mother yourself. Know that you are doing the best you can. You are!
Thus spoke the Mom Who Took off on her motorcycle. And finally, as my own mother always says, “Mother is not the first part of a hyphenated curse word!” Thanks, Mom! You taught me vision. That means not to see the world as it should be but the way things are. Reminder: MOM is WOW spelled upside down.
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