Tool For Tuesday: If It’s Hysterical, It’s Historical.

The Pope & The Rabbi

Every time a new Pope is elected, there are many rituals in accordance with tradition, but, there is one tradition that very few people know about.

Shortly after a new Pope is enthroned, the Chief Rabbi of Rome seeks an audience. He is shown into the Pope’s presence, whereupon he presents the Pope with a silver tray bearing a velvet cushion. On top of the cushion is an ancient, shriveled envelope. The Pope symbolically stretches out his arm in a gesture of rejection. The Chief Rabbi then retires, taking the envelope with him and does not return until the next Pope is elected.

A new Pope’s reign was shortly followed by a new Chief Rabbi. He was intrigued by this ritual and that its origins were unknown to him. He instructed the best scholars of theVatican to research it, but they came up with nothing.

When the time came and the Chief Rabbi was shown into his presence, they faithfully enacted the ritual rejection but, as the Chief Rabbi turned to leave, the Pope called him back.

“My brother,” the Pope whispered, “I must confess that we Catholics are ignorant of the meaning of this ritual enacted for centuries between us and you, the representative of the Jewish people. I have to ask you, what is it all about?”

The Chief Rabbi shrugged and replied: “We have no more idea than you do. The origin of the ceremony is lost in the traditions of ancient history.”

The Pope said: “Let us retire to my private chambers and enjoy a glass of kosher wine together; then with your agreement, we shall open the envelope and discover the secret at last.” The Chief Rabbi agreed.

Fortified in their resolve by the wine, they gingerly pried open the curling parchment envelope and with trembling fingers, the Chief Rabbi reached inside and extracted a folded sheet of similarly ancient paper.

As the Pope peered over his shoulder, he slowly opened it. They both gasped with shock —

It was a bill for the Last Supper — from Murray the Caterer.

Ha! Pretty funny.  But seriously, what can it teach us? This tool for Tuesday: If it’s hysterical, it’s historical. Not just for a whole people but for an individual, too.

If we find ourselves getting hysterical—full of fear, anger, resentment, worry, panic— about something, it might be because it’s triggering a historical fear, anger, resentment, worry, panic. We can carry those feelings around for a whole lifetime.

We don’t have to keep holding a grudge, an old bill from two millennia ago. We can dive into our history and find what it is that is triggering our outburst. As I wrote in a post, we can name it, frame it and then tame it. We need to be willing to look at ourselves, and then move on.

Tool for Tuesday: If it’s hysterical, it’s historical.

About dianabletter

Diana Bletter is the author of several books, including The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish American Women (with photographs by Lori Grinker), shortlisted for a National Jewish Book Award. Her novel, A Remarkable Kindness, (HarperCollins) was published in 2015. She is the First Prize Winner of Moment Magazine's 2019 Fiction Contest. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Commentary, tabletmag, Glamour, The Forward, The North American Review, Times of Israel, and is a reporter for Israel21C, and many other publications. She is author of Big Up Yourself: It's About Time You Like Being You and The Mom Who Took off On Her Motorcycle, a memoir of her 10,000-mile motorcycle trip to Alaska and back to New York. She lives in a small beach village in Western Galilee, Israel, with her husband and family. She is a member of the local hevra kadisha, the burial circle, and a Muslim-Jewish-Christian-Druze women's group in the nearby town of Akko. And, she likes snowboarding and climbing trees.
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4 Responses to Tool For Tuesday: If It’s Hysterical, It’s Historical.

  1. Amazing, Diana. So this really could be a joke–“The Pope and the Chief Rabbi walked into a bar for kosher wine…”–add a Methodist minister and a blind bartender, and you’ve got it.
    But this is also a gppd lesson about many different expectations and unquestioned traditions.

  2. cpanel vps says:

    Highly energetic post, I enjoyed that bit. Will there be a part 2?|

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