Category Archives: Tool For Tuesday

Tool For Tuesday: If You Lose It, You Lose It.

I’m always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught. — Winston Churchill I had a talk with my stepdaughter, Libi, who has a 3-year-old and a 6-month-old. She asked, “How did you do it with so … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Take the Spiritual Approach. Move from the Problem to the Solution.

I once met a woman who had recently married a guy with two teenage sons. To say she did not like the older son would be an understatement. Her arm hairs bristled when he walked into the room. “How do … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Terrorists Want You Dead. Celebrate Being Alive.

My husband Jonny and I dedicated our run this morning to all the victims of the Boston Marathon attack on April 15. If you’re a runner, run your miles in memory of all those who were killed and all those … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Today is a Room That Has Never Been Entered Before

This tool for Tuesday has to do with death. It has to do with life. My friend, Anne, sent me (via her daughter) a link to an inspirational piece by Roger Ebert, about dying. He quoted Vincent van Gogh, who … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Training For Life

My husband, Jonny, has a friend, Michael, who’s this top-notch athlete. He says he’s always training. For what? For life. Another of Jonny’s friends, Corey, also a fine jock, says he’s training for adversity. Hoping that adversity might never come … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: A Rude Awakening Precedes A Spiritual Awakening

It all happens for a reason. I believe this to be true, especially today when I made an embarrassing mistake.   I was supposed to take part in a reading at the Embassy of the Netherlands with seven other writers for … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: If It’s Hysterical, It’s Historical.

The Pope & The Rabbi Every time a new Pope is elected, there are many rituals in accordance with tradition, but, there is one tradition that very few people know about. Shortly after a new Pope is enthroned, the Chief Rabbi of Rome seeks … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Embrace These 13 Paradoxes.

In the economy of the universe, nothing is wasted. Everything is transformed – even if we don’t always understand how. These are re are so many paradoxes but read on so you get it right. 1. The more love you … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday. Nobody Can Read Your Mind. Ask For Help.

You can’t do it all yourself. Some of the best writers in the world had the best editors. (I’m thinking of Ernest Hemingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald and Thomas Wolfe who worked with Maxwell Perkins.) Writers can’t find where they … Continue reading

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Tool for Tuesday: 10 Tools for Turning Your Lessons into Blessons

I first heard the term from Kristine Carlson: blessons. The difficult lessons in our life that might be blessings in deep disguise. We don’t always understand why we’re faced with certain trials. We assume that the only end to the … Continue reading

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