Category Archives: Tool For Tuesday

Tool For Tuesday: Pray Up

If you feel like you’ve reached the end of the rope, tie a knot and hang on. Hurricane Sandy is on a path of destruction. To all my friends in harm’s way, I am holding you in the light. Nothing to … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Don’t Dance the Either/Or Tango

Either I love him or I hate him…either I am angry at him or I adore him… We don’t have to do that either/or tango. We can love someone and still be angry at them–even though it’s tough. When Wilbur the … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Even Things Shouldn’t Be Homeless.

    Today’s Tool for Tuesday was inspired by Gretchen Rubin’s terrific twitter that if you can’t find something, it means you have to clean up. Where did I put my keys? Where did I put my phone? Where did … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: 5 Guaranteed Ways To Avoid An Argument

You don’t want to have another argument again. You just don’t. You don’t want to bicker, squabble or wrangle. You don’t want to be lassoed into another quarrel. But the other guy is dragging you into the boxing ring for … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Call A Friend. Share Your Commitment.

I never make new year’s resolutions—I try to make a daily commitment. I call a friend and we share our commitments. I might say, “Today I’m committing to writing at least 1000 words.” She’ll say, “Today I’m committing to going … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: M.Y.M.

Are you doing unto others so that they will do unto you? My friend Joelle said that she asks people in her family, “Do you want a cup of coffee? A glass of water?” she’s thinking, “I wish someone would … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Throw Out Your To Do List

My friend Joelle (the one who has a bad case of Tongue-Fu) is going through a tough time with her divorce. Every day, she feels overwhelmed by all the things she has to do and underwhelmed when it comes to … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: How To Predict The Future

How can you predict the future? How can you predict what someone else will do? By looking at what they’ve already done. Look at your boss. She (threw you off there, didn’t I?) criticized you yesterday and the day before that. … Continue reading

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Tool for Tuesday: Q & A’s On Detachment

Question: How do you detach from someone you love? We can love someone but not suffer when they suffer. We can love them and not be miserable when they’re miserable or angry when they’re angry. If we are emotionally autonomous—as … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Be Kind To Your Morning Self

Sometimes at night I’ll see the pots and pans in the dish rack and I’ll think, “I should put the dishes away now.” Then I say, “Nah, I’ll do it in the morning.” I leave the crap for my morning … Continue reading

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