Category Archives: Transformation

Give Mourning Time Time. 10 Tips on Grief.

Posted on October 6, 2013 by dianabletter

“How’s your blob going?” my mother used to ask about this, my blog. Well, as you might have wondered, my blob fell off the edge of the earth as my mother died September 13. I’m not ready to write about … Continue reading →

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Tool For Tuesday: Drop the Savior Behavior.

Posted on August 20, 2013 by dianabletter

  My friend, Lily, whom I’ve written about here, told me that she had arrived at a new relationship with her new boyfriend on a white horse. She was going to rescue him and clean up his life. And at the … Continue reading →

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Tool For Tuesday: Drop the Because.

Posted on August 13, 2013 by dianabletter

Can I go to the movies, Mom? No, because it costs a lot of money with the popcorn. I won’t buy popcorn. But the soda’s also expensive. I won’t buy soda. The tickets cost a lot. I have my own … Continue reading →

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Tool For Tuesday: On Fear, And Forgetting Everything’s All Right

Posted on August 6, 2013 by dianabletter

Now a word from our sponsor about fear. What’s fear? Forgetting Everything’s All Right. Facing Everything And Recovering. F—K Everything And Run. I love finding new acronyms. Let’s see. Fully Embracing All Reality. (That was off the top of my … Continue reading →

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Ten Cliches That Actually Work.

Posted on August 4, 2013 by dianabletter

    Put Principles Above Personalities. If you believe in practicing kindness, then practice this principle of kindness with everyone. Especially with people who try your patience. First things first. Make a list of what you need to do first. … Continue reading →

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Tool for Tuesday: Tips for How to Make Up and Move On

Posted on June 18, 2013 by dianabletter

I wrote, “If you’re burning, you’re learning,” in my last post. You can look at it here. (But, “basically speaking,” as my Scottish friend always says, what I wrote was this: We burn inside when we are aware that we … Continue reading →

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Are You Burning? That Means You’re Learning.

Posted on June 13, 2013 by dianabletter

“Did you get my Adidas?” my husband, Jonny, asked me. “Yeah, yeah, yeah,” I said. But in truth, I hadn’t really checked. Jonny and my stepson had three pairs of shoes delivered and I hadn’t paid attention to which kind … Continue reading →

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Life Doesn’t Come to You. You Make it Happen.

Posted on June 9, 2013 by dianabletter

I had the pleasure of interviewing Liz Jansen, author of Women, Motorcycles and the Road to Empowerment on my blog here. Liz has great insights into transformation and other subjects. This time round, she interviewed me on her blog. But not … Continue reading →

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Tool For Tuesday: Act As If.

Posted on May 28, 2013 by dianabletter

I know the goal is honesty here, not an Academy Award. But this is a great tool. It’s a skill. If we act as if…. then the feelings catch up. After the death of her father, Joelle said she could … Continue reading →

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John Chancellor: Habits…And How To Get Things Done

Posted on May 23, 2013 by dianabletter

  I’d like to welcome John Chancellor, Author of Lessons in Life – Stories that Touch the Heart, Teach the Soul who is also one of Amazon’s top 500 book reviewers. I’m eager–as I’m sure you are, too–to hear about him! Diana: … Continue reading →

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