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The Best Way Not to Ruin Somebody Else’s Best Chapter

My younger son read a book — let’s just call it A Good Book for our purposes –and then encouraged my older son to read it. My older son began the book and was reading it at his own pace. This … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Try Something Untested and Totally New

A devoted reader of this blog pointed out that yesterday’s interview with Liz Jansen and The Writer’s Almanac with snippets from May Swenson, Walker Percy and Maeve Binchy shared a theme. Transformation. Since I’m a firm believer in synchronicity (the … Continue reading

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Bad Reality, Great Story

Sometimes when we’re going through something and it hurts, it feels like we’re never going to get out of it and it’s never going to not hurt. Clichéd expressions  like “this too shall pass” don’t make us feel any better … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Laugh At Yourself. But Really.

I often talk about how I’m learning to be more me by being less me. I’m trying to do things I wouldn’t normally do, stepping past the restricting idea I have of myself. See my post — I’m the kind of … Continue reading

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Tool for Tuesday: As Carl Bass Says, Don’t Swerve the Bus

On Sunday a friend sent me this link to an article in The New York Times about one of our friends from Cornell . During college, Carl – that’s his name, Carl Bass – could be seen walking around snowy, … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Say What You Mean. Mean What You Say. And Don’t Say It Meanly.

Last week’s Tool for Tuesday was making sure our actions match our words. That segues into today’s tool which can help us live our best chapter: Say what you mean. Mean what you say. And don’t say it meanly. I … Continue reading

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Meditation Makes A Difference

True confession: I once had a cyst on my foot. My ex-husband said I could cure it with some herbal medicine he was using and gave me an assortment of pills. I was hopeful. Trusting and open. My heart was … Continue reading

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Tool For Tuesday: Make Sure Your Actions Match Your Words

Did you ever go out with someone who promised you roses every Friday, trips to Tahiti and you got bupkis instead? (Bupkis, FYI, is Yiddish for goat droppings and means nothing, zip, absolutely nada.) If we want people to take … Continue reading

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Stop and Surrender

Sometimes I go kicking and fighting into the next chapter of my life. Sometimes I don’t want to follow through on the marching orders that I’ve been given. It could be a divorce, a move to another apartment, a new … Continue reading

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New Season, New Chapter

  When all six of our kids were living at home, I’d be so frazzled by the end of summer vacation that on the first day of school, I’d want to shout, “Get out your pompoms!” I don’t feel that … Continue reading

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